Fuck ya indie boys showed me this picture. This guy is wearing my shirt and the vest I haven’t been able to find yet. Also he has hair I wouldn’t mind.
Just added a new blog to my list: Critical Masculinities.
(Is the name a geeky cyclist joke?)
Fetlife is running a contest called “Sit on Kinky Santa’s Lap”. You pick 3 things you want and then there’s a draw. Sounds like some difficult sort of math to me… But I’m sure John Baku wrote a script for it.
I changed the theme of my site (if it’s not broke… how does the rest of that go?) and I found out the new theme can auto-generate a links page. This was my links don’t have to live on the side of all the other pages, which means I can update them with more stuff than is really seemly to have on every fucking page.
I updated this page to reflect the variety of blogs and podcasts I actually follow these days.
Do you have some time to kill? Check it out! (Always available on top nav bar of the site.)
Score! Sock Dreams sells the garter belt I have always wished existed:
Look how sturdy they are! You could bike around all day in them! (Click to go to website)
But they also gave me a crucial piece of new information: “These are the very same garters worn by hockey players”. Hockey players wear garters?!?! I’m sure I won’t need to order these off the Internet, I can probably go into any sports store (or Canadian Tire) and buy them. Fuck ya!! Thank you sock dreams. 
When I have some money I will be sure to buy something delicious from you.
I feel so horny for submission and suffering. I wish I had someone to take what I can give and to make me suffer.
I added a new page of my favourite posts from this site. If you read me via an RSS reader you probably won’t notice so I am noting it here, in case you’re interested.
I was going to take a roll of me masturbating in my pyjamas, but I ran out of batteries so I only got the first shot. You never seen action this hot before! hahaha
Did you know I have a stationary fetish?
Could have used some bull clips if you as me.
It seems like every time I make a comment on one of the local fetlife discussion boards I get hollered at. No wonder that community has such a bad rep around here. What a hostile group of people. It’s usually one or two posts out of several, but the fact that no one but me seems to take notice or step in leads me to believe that petty disrespect is sanctioned in that community and that the folk who are involved in it are to some extent OK with that kind of behaviour. Very scary to me given the communications and levelheadedness required to safely and respectfully conduct BDSM.
I will honestly say that when I am approached online by someone who has a strong affiliation with the major BDSM organization around here, it casts a certain kind of doubt about their character. It’s not irreversible, because I know it’s not a 100% fair judgment, but that person definitely has to prove themselves to me that extra little bit. I have just had too many negative interactions, coupled with the experiences of friends of mine, to let it slide.
What bullshit.
